Hi. I'm Vlad.
These days home is Bali.
I'm from Russia, but for a long time now I've been waking up to the sound of the ocean and roosters outside the window. This page isn't about work or achievements. It's about the real me: men I find irresistible, the things I enjoy, and the kind of life I actually want to live.
Vladislav Kalandzhiev, Vladik to friends. · Владислав Каланджиев · @lankad.om
1The most important thing, first
I'm gay. And I love fucking men. I like being the receptive partner, I like getting fucked hard in the ass, and I'm not going to pretend that this isn't a part of who I am. I like sex, I like the male body, male strength, and that feeling when there are no unnecessary words left between two men. To put it completely bluntly — I love getting my ass fucked. And yes, I want it myself.
Girls: no. Not flirting, not hints, not "let's just get to know each other." Women simply aren't my thing. I'm not looking to experiment, and I'm definitely not looking for a girlfriend. If you're a woman, save us both the time.
What makes me feel warm inside
Let's not dance around it. I spent enough years doing that already. I like guys who are comfortable being men — confident, physical, direct and completely at ease with their sexuality. I like the tension, the chemistry and the kind of closeness between two men that doesn't need a long explanation.
I make food for kittens. It's not a business or a brand, just something personal that I genuinely enjoy. Tiny, fluffy creatures somehow manage to take over your entire attention — and I'm perfectly fine with that.
I'm not an artist, I'm a viewer. I love work that creates a reaction — something unexpected, physical or emotional. Bali has plenty of places for that, from tiny studios in Ubud to strange performances around Canggu.
Meditation, Human Design, long conversations about what we actually want from life. I've spent years figuring myself out, and one thing I've learned is that honesty makes everything more interesting.
Uluwatu sunsets, morning surf, coffee in Ubud and rain arriving at four sharp. And, conveniently, an island where meeting men who share my interests isn't particularly difficult.
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3Who I'm waiting for
Men. Especially gay guys who don't need anything explained. Confident men, open men, men who know what they like and aren't afraid of it. We can start with an exhibition, dinner, drinks or a conversation that lasts until morning. And if the chemistry takes us somewhere more interesting, I'm certainly not going to complain.
If you're in Bali or planning to come, and you're the kind of guy who caught the subtext of this page without needing it spelled out, write me. You probably already know why.